BackMaintain A Healthy Relation At Work
In corporate world how important it is to maintain healthy
relationship? Moreover, how to maintain it is also a puzzling
question...
Though the definition of a healthy relationship differs from person to
person as their perception also differ from each other. Below are
certain tips to sustain it:
Avoidance Of Self Boosting
According to a Greek philosopher, Epictectus: "Nature gave us one
tongue and two ears so we could hear twice as much as we speak."
But people often forget to follow this principle in their day to day
lives as they enjoy speaking about themselves. The continuation of this
is harmful for ourselves because one day people will definitely get fed
up of our egoism. But at the same time if we speak about ourself as
well as listen to others it will naturally receive appreciation.
Remember that unsolicited self boosting brings you in bad light in
front of others.
Maintaining Harmony
In order to sustain a healthy relationship it is very important to keep
our personal grudges aside. No matter how much ever you involve in
meaningless argument with your colleague it wont be effective in
winning you a good impression. On the contrary it will affect your
image in the worst manner. Thus, always remember that meaningless
arguments and personal grudges are harmful in the process of
maintaining a healthy relationship.
Avoid Gossip and Gossip Mongers
Gossips and gossip mongers are an inevitable part of a working place.
Though its a human tendency it weakens our relationships as we dwell in
negative attributes. Avoid gossiping about anyone in the office because
ultimately you will be putting your reputation at stake.
Forgiveness
These days the word forgiveness has become a cliche but it is still a
powerful and significant factor in sustaining healthy relationships.
However, actual forgiveness not only means forgiving the person but
also forgetting the experience.
Oneness
A feeling of oneness is the essence of a healthy relationship. It is
this oneness which helps you in understanding others feelings and
thereby enables you to share in the success and failure of your
friends. In this way there wont be any feelings of jealousy and
insecurity. The basis of a successful relationship is to get rid of a
judgmental approach and adopt the concept of oneness.
Humour
Being humorous is a good sign for a healthy relationship but at the
same time be ready to laugh at yourself too. Its not good to be
humorous by keeping someone else's reputation at stake and don\'t
feel offended by anyones humorous comments. It does not mean that get
humiliated by someone it just means we keep our ego aside and relieve
our tensions and stress.
Work at Relationships but don't over analyze
It is certainly a positive point to work on relationship but it does
not mean over analyzing the existing relationship. It makes things
complex and difficult. Let the relationship be spontaneous and give
enough space to understand each other.
Maintaining a healthy relationship is knack which people should learn
as soon as possible because one day this good rapport will be helpful
to you in long run.
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